In this life where everyone wants something all the time, have you found yourself to be the one who gives and gets pretty much nothing back?
No, I am not talking about money or gifts or something materialistically valuable. I am talking about gestures which show you are always the one who is called or texted or spoken to just because the other person wants something out of you.
Do you think about how much you have given and you in your thoughts ask yourself, when will I get something back, when will this person call me to say hey, let me get you a coffee or a pizza or at-least appreciation saying okay you did this when I asked and I acknowledge your effort(s).
Is it wrong to expect a
“thank you bro, you made my day. I will get you a treat or I’ll be around when you need anything. Just give me a call”
I have always been told not to expect but if you love giving just give because you are blessed to be a giver. We seldom find people who are willing to contribute. We rarely find instances where there are bunch of people who are waiting to help.
It feels mentally exhausting to be asked all the time.
Well, in this world full of askers be the one who gives. Be thankful that you are trusted enough that they call you asking for something. It’s a rare gift, I am sure someone somewhere is keeping a note of checks and balances. And you one day will be duly paid.
If all of this doesn’t make sense to you, it means there is a high possibility that you have been asking more than giving. Call your giver and show them some love.